Club Rendezvous

Etiquette and First Timer’s Advice

• If you haven’t already, please read the club rules. This will give you the basics.

• Let it be known what you are and are not willing to do. Do what you want, with who want, when you are ready to do it. Remember that honesty is always the best policy, but please be polite and tactful as well.

• Only do what you are comfortable doing.

• Be respectful of others feelings and be conscious of your partners feelings.

• Discuss any inhibitions you may have with your mate before hand. Know each other’s limits prior to attending functions.

• First time swingers may feel uneasy seeing their mate with someone else. If this happens, talk to others and ask how they handled their first time. Don't let jealousy spoil a good time.

• Appearance and cleanliness are important, so make sure that your clothes are neat and clean. Perfume, colognes, and after-shave are always nice, but please do not wear so much that you become over powering! Like anywhere in life, first appearances are important..

• Club Rendezvous is a non smoking facility. We do have a sheltered area for smoking at the rear of the building.

• Always practice safe sex.

• A few drinks can often help everyone to relax, however make sure you never over-indulge. Besides being a performance inhibitor, drunks are seldom invited to get togethers.

• Bring your own booze.  We provide the mix and munchies, but we do not sell alcohol. Labels are provided for your bottles. Any alcohol left on the premises longer than 6 months will be discarded.

• Drug use in the club will not be tolerated. If you must indulge, please do it elsewhere.

• What To Expect at Club Rendezvous from a Newbies point?

  Most people have the wrong idea of just what a swingers club really is. Many have the vague idea that it's just like a giant orgy that you do anything you want with whomever you like. At Club Rendezvous this is not how this private club works! More than anything else, Club Rendezvous is a social club where you'll meet and form friendships with some of the nicest people in this alternative lifestyle. In some cases, you'll form friendships that can last a lifetime. But here's why...

  When you first walk into any swingers club for the first time, you will probably be very nervous. You probably won't know anyone there. You will feel like everyone is watching you, and they will be, you are new. Well that's normal. Everyone's first on anything they are a little nervous maybe even apprehensive and with the thought of meeting someone new, there will be feelings of excitement and possibly expectations of a truly wild night. What you expect is probably going to be the biggest cause of your anxieties. Expecting a lot is a common mistake. I found I was more nervous than my husband. But he was also nervous. I was unsure of what his reaction was going to be towards the women we would encounter and I was feeling very anxious about that. Remember this was a first time at a club for us.

  We found the best way to approach the evening is with only one single expectation, and that is to have a great time ...together. Our advice is go to enjoy each other. This way you'll both be completely comfortable. Then one of the following things will definitely happen...

  At the end of the night after talking and dancing, you will both go home with each other and be totally relaxed and discuss things you saw, learned and wanted. Then you will probably have the best love making session you have had in years cause you are so turned on! And of course make plans to come back!

  While on the dance floor during one of the slow songs, you're dancing together, seducing one another with your moves. You find yourself checking other couples out... You admire what you see and notice some of them maybe checking you out back. After the song is finished you go back to your seat and enjoy the excitement you are feeling.

  At the end of the night, maybe you'll exchange phone numbers with another couple or maybe you'll invite them or accept an invitation to join them at their home or hotel room, or maybe you'll just enjoy seeing them at Club Rendezvous again. Remember, it's all up to you there is no pressure here.

  We have found that when you come to Club Rendezvous with an open mind and a desire for fun and no expectations you will make some great friends and have a great time. Check out the weekly themes and participate in them. You will have a blast!

  J & G